Otto;
You are still missing the point. You are looking for a black cat on a dark black room. The problem is that there is no black cat. So keep searching...
Stop comparing RDP vs SQL. I use both. It is not one or the other. ADS DD gives you triggers, stored procedures, save points with roll back transactions, sql syntax, ISAM, event messaging between server and workstation, data security, zero corruption, real client-server. RDP gives you... well just that, remote desktop. See, oranges and bicycles don't compare and don't need to be pinned one against the other.
Again, you can't miss what you don't know. If the dark room feels comfortable to you, then stay there.
Reinaldo.